ILLNESS hearted, disappointed, or may feel ashamed when we realize that the love we built was unrequited. Ironic as it sounds.
But there is no doubt that it can happen to anyone. In fact, sometimes you are experienced it will feel that you have a valid one. Because too raising concern that you receive from someone.
But life goes on. No need to regret what happened to excessive ye.
Assure that maybe someone you love is not the best person who deserves your love.
Here are some things you can do to help yourselves and you remove yourself from feeling sad that sometimes prolonged.
1. Position You Realize
Realize, how big your liking to him, he will not return your feelings. You can not make someone fall in love with you despite any segigih your business. Better you try to find you rush to eliminate a great feeling to it.
2. Assure That You Will Get The Best.
You deserve someone who appreciates and cares about you. For that instill confidence in yourself that someday you will get the best, as expected. With confidence like that you can instill the confidence to step into a better future.
3. Do not Blame Yourself
Most of you probably will blame themselves by questioning why this could happen to you. Had to be more careful and not develop further feelings of all the attention and affection, maybe this will never happen. Things like that will often haunt your mind. But for now keep the guilt from your heart. Do not make pengandai-assumption. And do not ever imagine the things that are not useful.
4. Feelings You Do not Develop
Maybe you had thought that the rejection was only a matter of time. And you try to improve themselves all out to get attention back.
Do not ever try to get it back, you will never succeed. It seems it was too late. If you want change do for yourself. And now it's time to think about your own self.
5. Look for Other People Who Understand You
As such this is a good time to make friends as much as possible. Or search for family or friends who can understand your feelings. Share with them,
who knows of them, you get the lesson that should be followed.
6. Tekuni Hobbies
Do a hobby or anything that makes you happy. Remove the thoughts and feelings of everything that had passed. The way to keep myself busy.
7. Open New Sheet
Close your grief. Open a new page in life. When you feel angry, disappointed or anything else, perhaps it is reasonable and feeling normal. But define when you must let go of "mourning period" to determine the ideals and new hope.
8. Do not hurry Seeking Replacement
Do not rush to find someone else as substitute. Not fair to the person. Give yourself time to recover so in advance and can accept the presence of someone with all my heart not because they want to escape from reality.
9. Never Too Obsessive
If you feel unable to prevent themselves to chase after him, seek professional assistance.
The future of your stretched. Rise from sorrow and Hurricane definitely passed. And the ideals you will easily be achieved with a clear mind and heart. If not get out of a sense of it, you'll miss a step behind from others.